#6 Appreciate Everyone For Who They Are

I love when friends come and share their problems with me. Even though I have my own, which I can't even handle it sometimes. Friends come and go. Believe me, I'll never say no. Because I feel like I've been appreciated. I've been talking, thinking about this topic, a lot, lately. Lately or shall I say, this is how I spend my holiday ? :) Yes. Semester break for a month. I take this chance to meet up and gather with some of my close friends. Other than thinking of *you, which I don't want to talk about it right now because I'll keep it to myself.

 

"Who has a friend, is a rich person." - This is what I believe all this time. Then, if you have friends, consider yourself as the richest among the richest. :) Friend of mine us to remind me about, people come and go, you just have to go with the flow. The same concept goes to friend. There are a lot of type of friend. Friend. Best friend. True friend. There are even fake friend. It just how you handle them, face them or accept them. Yeah. Different person with a different personality. 

Don't simply judge your friends as traitor/betrayer when they're not around when you need them the most because we don't exactly know their situation at that time. Maybe they have their own unsolved problem. We never know. Because sometimes, some people tends to keep their problems to themselves for some reasons. Don't simply accuse/say that your friends abandoned or forget about you. What you might not know, maybe he/she have been forced to leave you for a moment. Kena pulak masa tu kau sangat perlukan dia. Jangan tuduh melulu tanpa alasan yang kukuh. Yeah. You better find out first. Haaa. Another thing is, don't make any assumption. If it is a positive assumption, then it is good for you. :) Try to throw away those negative thoughts.

At one point, you just have to accept the fact that those people who say they will be around for you, won't. I'm not very good in giving advises. But when come to friends, I trust them. I serve them with loyalty. Be nice to them as long as they being nice to me. Remember them by heart.

Allah jadikan manusia tidak sempurna. Tidak cukup semuanya. Sama ada nampak atau tidak terlihat. Terlebih di sini, mungkin terkurang di sana. Ada sebab kenapa ada yang tidak lengkap. Allah suka manusia yang menjalinkan silaturrahim. Nabi juga. Do you get what I means ? :) 

Dear friends, please stay.

I promise the same. :')